Hitting the road

That’s it people. Next time you see a post from me, it will be while I am on the road. The packers come tomorrow and I will be headed out Tuesday. The lab is sitting in a warehouse in Baton Rouge waiting to be picked up. I will stop over in Dallas for a few days before I head for Denver. Rumor has it that Kyllan and I will be taking engagement photos while I am in town.

Kim N. posted some new pictures to her flickr account. Of course it is still locked down, so if you don’t see anything, mouse over the photo by her screen name “Drewnick,” and click the add as contact link. Maybe she will add you as a contact too, and then you can see her pictures.

Caroline Cody

This plaque is of my sister Caroline Annette Cody. It sits in the lounge area of the Biology Department at Xavier University of Louisiana. Today would have been her 29th birthday. There is an identical plaque in the “Caroline Cody Library” at the University of Florida College of Medicine. The library is located in a medical student lounge and provides free access to medical text books. The College of Medicine has also established the Caroline Annette Cody Memorial Scholarship Award, “presented to a third-year student who best exemplifies Caroline’s remarkable personal characteristics and altruistic service to the community.” The Jacksonville Alumni Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity also presents a scholarship in memory of Caroline. It is a competitive scholarship awarded to a local graduating senior who will be attending a four year university the following year. The first recipient attended Xavier and is now a in medical school. The Gamma Alpha Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority presents a book scholarship every year to a current Xavier University student.

I could write for days about my sister, her life and her accomplishments. So many people seem hesitant to ask me about Caroline. I have so many memories of my sister I could share with you. I promise, the stories I would tell wouldn’t make you cry. They would make you smile and they would make you proud. That is one of the reasons I discussed the scholarships above. The other? I think the easiest way to explain the impact Caroline’s life had on her family and friends is to see the things done to preserve her memory. Some more examples are below.

Read about Caroline being posthumously awarded her M.D. here and here

Read about the “Caroline Cody Act” which was passed last year in the state of Florida here and here

It is more important to me that you read the articles above, but here are two articles from after the trial here and here

… I have blocked commenting on this post. I would, however, enjoy calls or e-mails from you sharing your thoughts and memories. I am sure my parents would as well.

***EDIT 4/10/09*** Contact information can be found the page dedicated to my sister’s memory. In addition to the information found above, it will continue to be updated. Please visit it here. ***End Edit***

Happy Sweetest Day!

Ok… so most of you probably have no idea what I am talking about, but for anyone from Cleveland or Detroit, you may identify. My sister reminded me that today is Sweetest Day. Click on the link to learn more about it. Most say Hallmark invented it, but people in Cleveland treat it as a bona fide holiday. My sister was saying that she remembers in high school how you had the opportunity to buy a carnation to give to someone on the Friday before Sweetest Day. I failed to ask her if she bought any carnations 🙂

As William said, sorry we have been bad at posting lately. Work has been extremely busy, but we are going to try to do a better job of keeping up.

Snuck up

Sorry for the lack of post recently. Kyllan has been really busy at work and I had a couple of rough days at the lab… Speaking of the lab, this move thing kind of snuck up on us. We weren’t planning to stop working this early, but the moving company called yesterday and told us they would be coming Friday to pack up everything. We spent all day breaking down equipment and separating out what was staying and what was going, only to receive a call at about 5:30 that they weren’t going to make it. Oh well. I should be getting out of here the 31st. I will be making a stop in Dallas to see Kyllan and then continuing on to Denver where I will move into an apartment I have never seen. With all that has been going on, I never made it up to look at apartments. My PI has seen it. He had planned to move to the same complex if he and his wife hadn’t closed on a house. It’s nicer and cheaper than were I am staying now, so I am happy. I’ll have to stop by Xavier’s bookstore before I leave and get some paraphernalia.

Another Weekend Gone

Kyllan was too down to post about Wake Forest’s loss to Clemson. In a rare nationally televised appearance, Wake allowed 24 points in the fourth quarter, blowing their 14 point lead and the chance to be 6-0 for the first time since 1944. Kyllan says it was fun while it lasted.

I spent the weekend studying, so I have nothing interesting to talk about. I did take a break to watch the Jaguars stomp the Jets 41-0!

…As usual, it’s late and I am still up. One of the benefits of staying up late is watching boring late night/ early morning news. No pundits, no perky talking heads and no media personalities telling me why their opinion is always right. Just a straight rundown on what happened that day. I was really caught of guard with breaking news that North Korea had successfully tested a nuclear weapon. Wow! That’s a little scary. It will be interesting to see what the response is like from the international community. (No, not the stern letters from the UN, but the actual response.)

Leap of Faith

This past weekend, I attended a Leadership conference and ropes course along with 15 other community leaders. We participated in several icebreakers, teambuilding exercises and high and low ropes elements. In some respects, I was excited about the trip and the opportunity to try some of the elements on the ropes course. However, once there and staring at the obstacles in front of me, let’s just say the excitement started to wither away. The first part of the morning, we stayed on the low elements, which required a lot of teamwork and trust. The afternoon consisted of the high ropes. Even though I have been on two ropes courses before in high school and graduate school, I was still a bit anxious about trying these again. The first element I tried was the climbing wall. I usually struggle with getting the right grip and making it to the top, but somehow I surprised myself and made it to the top much faster than I imagined I would (after a few small areas of hesitation). Once you make it to the top, you get to “fly” back to the ground on a zip line, which was fun! The final high element of the day was the “Leap of Faith” pole, which is a utility pole that is approximately 35 feet high. In my

opinion, the “Leap of Faith” pole is a misnomer because in my opinion, the hardest part is not leaping from the pole, but making it past the last few rungs at the top of the pole and pushing yourself on to the top and standing on top of a pole with a radius that can only accommodate about ¾ of each of your feet. For me, it was more the “Climb of Faith” than anything else. I watched 4 people go ahead of me before I built up the nerve to give it a try. I climb the first part with no problem, but when I got to the last two rungs where you push yourself up on top of the pole, it took a few attempts (and a few prayers) to balance myself and stand up on the pole. Then it took another few deep breaths to turn around a face the trapeze. Unfortunately, I missed the trapeze when I jumped, but I was safe and secure in the harness and was lowered to the ground. Even though I missed the trapeze, I was extremely proud that I overcame my fear and made it to the top of the pole. (I will try to get pictures and post them).

Ironically, my experience today is similar to what Wake Forest now faces as they enter the second half of the season. I am thrilled that they are 5-0 and first in the Atlantic conference (the ACC divided the conference into Atlantic and Coastal). However, those who know Wake well know that the picture can quickly change. They should be able to win 2 or 3 more with no problems, but 4 of the games should give them a pretty good battle. After cruising to the top pretty easily, hopefully they will be able to pull themselves up the last few rungs and stand proudly up on top.

GO DEACS!